Hi Sheila,
Welcome to the forum, however, sorry to hear you have this awful condition.
I'm Nina (41), married to David (soon to be 40) and we have a five year old son, Cameron. Work four full days at Tarmac (near Wolverhampton) as Legal Compliance Manager (a recent promotion, details of which not quite finalised!).
Was diagnosed with RA (serropositive) in March last year and originally prescribed plaquenil and mtx altho had to stop plaquenil as it didn't agree with me. Have recently found out that mtx hasn't helped much either and am being assessed for anti tnf on 16 March - would cross my fingers, but that is virtually impossible to do now!
Looking forward to hearing more from you.
Nina xx